A Year Of Growth – Week 2 – A Goal for the Year

Quite simply this year’s blogging goal is to grow. To grow my blog as a whole, from audience to regularity of posts, but also to grow as a person. To grow in confidence, to grow in enthusiasm, to grow in self-belief – I didn’t name this blog series A Year of Growth for nothing! My reasoning for all this? Because if my blogging can help me grow and learn to accept my life with a chronic illness, then chances are it can help others too.

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A Year of Growth – Week 1 – The Highs and Lows of ME/CFS

ME/CFS affects everyone differently, while some people are bed bound for years, on the other end of the scale is people like me, still able to live a virtually “normal” life. Still working full time. Still taking part in hobby activities. Still living. Still here. But what looks normal from the outside can be far from it on the inside. Yes, I’m capable of working full time but only because I have a generous boss who doesn’t mind me taking the odd unpaid day as leave if I need it. Yes, I attend dance and flute lessons – but only one or two per week where I used to attend them every single day. Yes, I dragged myself out of bed this morning, but no, I didn’t make my own lunch. In fact, I didn’t even choose my own clothes because I don’t have the energy. I didn’t shower, I didn’t do my hair and I don’t wear make-up. From the outside, it looks like I prefer a natural look, hair down, face bare. From the inside, I wish I had the energy, I wish I had the time to spend each morning to cover the bags under my eyes, to pull my hair into a braid, to make my own damned coffee.

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A Year of Growth – 52 Writing Prompts for Chronic Illness Bloggers

This will be a year of growing through my illness; each of the prompts is designed to make me think about my illness, how it affects my life, and how I can change that for the better. I encourage you to join me and take part in your own way – let’s grow together! #growwithme

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That Dreaded Hospital

What am I in for? Well I woke up at midnight all nauseous and sweaty, then suddenly cold and shivering, back to sweaty and by 6am the vomiting had begun and well it’s almost 2pm now and I still can’t keep water down. “Any other conditions we should know about?” Yeah, I have chronic fatigue syndrome. “Okay, but other than that you’re normally quite fit and healthy?”  …

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I’m still here!

Hey Everyone!

Just thought I’d post a quick update, I’ve been meaning to write for a while now and every time I sit down to start something else comes up and I’m off on a tangent!

It’s been a crazy week, my partner and I went on a little winter road trip to a gorgeous wee cottage for a few days and upon returning home I came down with a virus and ended up in A&E connected to a drip with a heart rate over 100bpm… more on both of those stories soon!

Anyway, just wanted to say I hope you’re all doing well and I’ll be back online with some proper blog posts soon.

Much love as always,


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